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Make a Bunch of Stupid Mistakes

In the Red personality framework, mistakes perceived as obvious or avoidable can provoke anger and assumptions that colleagues are incompetent.

THE IDEA

Make a Bunch of Stupid Mistakes

Mistakes are one thing, but stupid mistakes, well, that’s something completely different. It’s so overwhelmingly unnecessary. If a Red believes his colleagues are brainless, he gets crazy: “Why don’t they understand what they’re supposed to do? How hard can it be?”

When to use it

  • When reviewing a colleague's work that contains errors, first consider if instructions or tools were clear before assuming incompetence.

  • In a team meeting, if tasks are repeatedly done incorrectly, assess whether the process or training is flawed instead of blaming individuals.

  • When you yourself make a mistake that feels stupid, avoid self-criticism and instead analyze if the situation was set up for failure.

FROM THEORY TO EVERYDAY LIFE

In practice

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Managerial frustration

A manager (Red personality) sees an employee repeatedly make a simple error in a report. The manager assumes the employee is brainless and becomes angry, but later learns the error was due to a poorly designed template. The manager's assumption of a 'stupid mistake' escalated unnecessarily.

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A MOMENT TO REFLECT

Put it to work.

  1. Think of a time you labeled someone else's mistake as 'stupid.' How did that assumption affect your response and the outcome?

  2. How can you distinguish between a genuine lack of understanding and a simple oversight when others make mistakes?

  3. What communication patterns might prevent the 'they must be brainless' reaction in a team setting?

CONTINUE THE CONVERSATION

Source texts

  • Surrounded By Idiots (Thomas Erikson)
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